Also working in External Affairs was Ros Hardiman, sister of Mike’s long-time friend George Hardiman. Mike and Ros became re-acquainted, and were married March 1971 and proceeded on their first posting to Stockholm. Mike and his family went on to serve in Belgrade, Honolulu, Buenos Aires and Washington DC. A comment from Ambassador Malcolm Dan highlights Mike’s character: “Mike came to us with an impressive Army record of Bravery in Vietnam, in private he never once brought up the subject himself. He was rightly proud of his record and his Army compatriots”.
One of the many highlights of Mike’s career in Foreign Affairs was his invitation and participation in the traditional ‘reading of the names’ on the Tenth Anniversary of Vietnam Memorial Wall, Washington DC. It was a very cold morning in November 1992 when Australia was so proudly represented.
Always fit and possessing exceptional sporting abilities, Mike played Rugby League Group 19 in Cooma and Rugby Union with the Royals Club in Canberra.
Mike received an offer to play League with Balmain, which unfortunately he had to decline. Whilst posted to Hawaii, Mike found time to run the Honolulu Marathon in 1978 & 1979. However, snow skiing was the favourite sport, a sport in which the whole family could participate together in so many different locations around the world.
After retiring Mike formed a weekly bike riding group aptly named ‘Greyspokes’ with retired colleagues and friends. They can still be seen riding around Canberra in their blue T shirts every Friday on their way to a restaurant to enjoy lunch a few glasses of wine and a long ride home.
First and foremost, Mike’s favourite activity was Fly Fishing, a skill he perfected very early in his life. Best of all was fishing in the Snowy Mountains just a short drive from home. For him, this was always most therapeutic, relaxing and just a quiet, reflective time. Bringing home fresh trout to enjoy with family and friends was his absolute pleasure.
Forced into early retirement in 1996, Mike enjoyed seven years of quality life with family and bonus time with his first-born Granddaughter Caitlyn. He was also a passionate supporter of the Brumbies and Wallabies, and retirement gave him the opportunity to attend the Opening of the Rugby World Cup in Sydney in 2003.
Anzac Day was sacred for Mike wherever he was in the world. To be in Canberra for the Dawn Service and the March gave Mike an opportunity to catch up with many friends. Traditional Lunch and then 2-Up at the Hellenic Club completed the long day.
Mike was a devoted, loving, nurturing family man, his motto “Family First Always “. His only enemy was Cancer which took him from us too soon. Mike is survived and very sadly missed by loving family: wife Ros, children Daniel Bernard, Lisa Michele and Justin Mathew, daughter in law Michelle and granddaughter Caitlyn. |